It's The Dad again, so prepare yourself for the well intended thoughts of an ill informed man.
My thoughts for today are concerning and article Tinyclanger spotted in the Telegraph (
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2267596/John-Bercow-Childrens-speech-problems-could-lead-to-criminality.html). The article discusses John Bercow's report and his link between language problems and unemployment / crime / etc. Interestingly enough, we have just written to our MP regarding this subject and is something very dear to my heart.
The review states that, "children with primary language difficulties are at higher risk of developing behavioural, emotional and social difficulties. This increases the risk of their exclusion from school and, in the most extreme cases, can lead to young people entering the criminal justice system."
Now a bit of me says, "ok, so we spend how much money and how much time to come up with this?" because to me, this ain't rocket science. Put me in a foreign country and I struggle. To be honest I am struggling by the time I reach the airport, but once I find myself in a place where they all talk a different language, I am way outside of my comfort zone and avoid many situations, looking for the safe options (restaurants with menus in English, people who speak my language, etc). I feel ill at ease, uncomfortable and to some extent frightened.
Now this is the action of a grown man who, although he doesn't have the right language, does have reasonable language skills. Try taking away these abilities and imagine how much more difficult it will be. Is it surprising that a child who can't explain his fears / frustrations / discomforts lashes out in some way? As he grows older and continues to have problems, is it surprising that he struggles to 'fit in' and can't therefore keep a job down? A vicious circle has started and breaking out is so difficult.
As a society we assume that when someone is behaving like this it is because they are being naughty, that they just haven't been brought up properly. But the reality is often that society is failing the child. Society can't
see the disability so doesn't cut any slack. Much of my feelings in this area are based on personal experience - not so much M (he hasn't had to try and hold down a job yet, although he does often struggle to fit in), but rather of a brother that I miss very much. He was a gifted individual and someone who inspired me greatly, but also someone who never fulfilled his potential due to social difficulties. He didn't turn to crime but did get into trouble with his peers, and but for the love particularly of his Mum and Dad I am sure this could have been much worse. He wasn't understood, but was often quickly judged.
So let's hope Bercow's words of wisdom, however obvious they may appear to some, are acted upon. Only by high quality early intervention can these children be given the full access to a wide curriculum that will help them blossom into the wonderful member of society that they can be. The alternative is that we continue to waste the gifts that are in each child that we give up on and who in turn gives up on us.